Speed-praying
How often we Pray with
our Lips
Speed-praying — just
“getting it done,” “getting it over with” …
How often, sadly, we pray as though
God, with a stern eye, were strictly counting the exact
number and each syllable of our prayers — carefully noting (and
marking in a debit against us) if we omitted just one of the
prescribed number (“did I pray ten, or was that eight!? … I had
better assume that it was eight, and pray two more, otherwise my
prayer will be meaningless, or at least will not mean as much.” How
quickly we try to reach to the prescribed number that will
somehow fulfill what God or His Holy Mother demands of us!
It is as though we see Christ or Mary, arms folded impatiently,
feet tapping the floor, waiting for us to finish, so that they can
get on with other things (when it is really we who wish to
get on with “other things.”) This is another way of saying that,
often, as we pray, our lips move, our fingers pass over the beads,
but our hearts are within neither.
We see this especially in praying the Holy Rosary.
Let us take one very, very, common example: The Apostles Creed:
“I-believe-in-God-the-Father-Almighty-Creator-of-Heaven-and-earth-
and-in-Jesus Christ-His-only-Son-Our
Lord-Who-was-conceived-by-
the-Holy-Spirit-born-of
the-Virgin-Mary-suffered-under-Pontius-Pilate
-was-crucified-died-and-was-buried-He-descended-into-Hell-the-third-
day-He-rose-again-from-the-dead-He-ascended-into-Heaven-and-sitteth
-at-the-righ-hand-of-God-the-Father-almighty-from-thence-He-shall-
come-to-judge-the-living-and-the-dead-I-believe-in-the-Holy-Spirit-the-
holy-Catholic-Church-the-Communion-of-Saints-the-forgiveness-of-
sins-the-resurrection-of-the-body-and-life-everlasting-Amen.” |
All spoken as one sentence
as quickly as possible — to get through it.
Worse still is the prayer to the very Mother of God, Mary Most Holy,
especially as it is “recited” — rather than “prayed”
in that beautiful prayer called the Angelic Salutation, but
better known simply as the Hail Mary:
“HailMaryfullofgracetheLordiswiththeeblessedartthouamongstwomen
andblessedisthefruitofthywombJesusHolyMaryMotherofGodprayforus
sinnersnowandatthehourofourdeathAmen.” |
Within 14 seconds flat!
… and ten times between each sacred
Mystery!
Really?
Is that how you approach God in
prayer? As fast as humanly possible?
Is that how you speak to your wife,
your husband, your children — your friends and neighbors? If so, you
either have none, and you never will!
“HelloJohnhowareyoulongtimenoseebythewayhowisLydiaIamwellwillyou
beabletocometomyson’sschoolplayOandIamsorrythatyourdogissickI
hopehegetsbetterItwasnicetallkingtoyoubye.” |
I am not an expert in Mariology —
but I am human, as Mary was and is — and even with so
few credentials I cannot imagine that either God or Mary are
especially impressed with my piety or devotion when I speak to them,
pray to them, much like a 33-rpm record incorrectly played at either
45-rpm or 78-rpm. Try it:
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Playing
Praying at the Wrong Speed
The point of this short essay is
simply this: GOD IS A
PERSON — and so is Mary. I do not believe that they esteem you
more holy or are in the least impressed with the speed of your
prayers, or the number of your prayers-recited-as-in-a marathon. In
fact, Christ Himself warned us against this:
“And when
you are praying, speak not much, as the heathens. For
they think that in their much speaking they may be
heard. Be not you therefore like to them, for your
Father knows what is needful for you, before you ask
Him.” (Saint Matthew 6.7-8) |
Is this not to
derogate from formal and structured prayers such as the Holy Rosary
or the litanies of the Saints? By no means! Nor is it written to
diminish the piety of the one praying. No. No. No!
In speaking of repetitive forms of
prayer — we must be clear that “repetitive” is not
to be understood pejoratively. Repetitive prayer is found in Sacred
Scripture:
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In the Book of the Apocalypse (the last book in the Bible) we
learn of the Holy Angels: “And they rested not day and night,
saying: Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, who was, and who
is, and who is to come.” (Apocalypse 4.8)
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“And they cried one to another, and said: Holy, holy, holy, the
Lord God of hosts, all the earth is full of his glory.” (Isaiah
6.3)
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The prayerful utterance, “His mercy endures forever”
occurs no less than 27 times in just one Psalm alone!!!
(Psalm 135)
https://drbo.org/chapter/21135.htm
This could also be said of the Most
Holy Rosary, the Trisagion*
prayed in both Latin and Eastern Rite Catholic Churches, as well as
many Novenas.
It could arguably be said that repeatedly telling another “I love
you!” is mere repetition (it is not!)
This is the point: when you “pray” do not make your prayer a rote
“recitation” to be sped through as quickly as possible. Repetition
is meaningful — or it can be useless.
Dwell on the words you pray. Utter them in the same way as you would
when sincerely talking to any person before you.
In fact, you are! You are speaking to God Most High —
from your heart.
One single decade of one single Mystery of the Holy Rosary prayed to
Mary, and through Mary, to the Person of God
— ex corde (from the heart) in the recognition that you
are addressing a real Person who is listening to you —
exceeds all the decades of all the Rosaries recited since Mary
brought this devotion to Saint Dominic in the 13th century.
The beautiful complexities latent within the Holy Rosary are many.
Meditating upon a holy Mystery while simultaneously praying the Hail
Mary as more than simply words accompanying our meditation is no
small feat. It is — dare I say — grace; the grace of simultaneity
that proximates what we glimpse of eternity.
Simply because the prayers may be
many and identical does not preclude their being uttered in absolute
devotion each time… for they extend beyond time to eternity … and
are offered in union with Mary to God Who sees the hearts and knows
the thoughts of men.
Understand that distraction in
prayer is very, very, common. No saint has not contended with it. It
only becomes a problem when we become obsessed with the
distraction to the point that we despair of praying meaningfully
— and cease praying. Then, as the saying goes, the “remedy” is far
worse than the “cure.” Better to be seeking God amid distraction
than forsaking Him without all the distractions of the world.
One simple suggestion, I think, is this: Pray — but only as
sincerely as you talk!
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*Trisagion:
“Holy God, Holy [and]
Mighty, Holy [and] Immortal, have mercy on us.
Holy God, Holy [and] Mighty, Holy [and] Immortal, Have mercy on us.
Holy God, Holy [and] Mighty, Holy [and] Immortal, Have mercy on us.
Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, both
now and ever and to the ages of ages. Amen.
Holy and Immortal, have mercy on us.
Holy God, Holy and Mighty, Holy, and Immortal, Have mercy on us.”
Geoffrey K. Mondello
Editor
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