On making a Perfect
and Holy Confession
THE SACRAMENT OF PENANCE
This magnificent article
is a reprint — with some editorial redactions —
from Sacred Heart Traditional Catholic Church in
Lawrence, MA. It is one of the best and most informative
articles on the Traditional Catholic Sacrament of Holy
Penance — or Holy Confession. It provides eminently
readable instruction on what Holy Confession is, what
is involved in making a good confession, what to do,
and what to avoid. It is a masterpiece of authentic,
traditional, Catholic teaching. It has been modified
in part for greater clarity.
[Editor’s Note: given the extreme spiritual
and moral laxity in society today — and, alas, for
sorrow — within the post-Vatican II Church itself in
which we find only “faults and failures” ...
but no “sins” — some of what appears below, especially
the questions of the priest-confessor, may seem stern,
rigorous, demanding, and even harsh. To understand
this correctly, you must understand the contrast
between the private and anonymous Traditional Catholic
“Confessional” and what we encounter in today’s
“Reconciliation Rooms” which resemble informal
offices with comfortably cushioned armchairs, no kneelers,
and no privacy: the priests knows
exactly who you are and what you
have done, for he is face-to-face with you. This
can be particularly uncomfortable for women, understandably
— and it is uncomfortable for men as well, and often
for the same reason. What woman wants to confess her
sexual sins face-to-face with a priest? Given the widespread
homosexuality in the priesthood of the Novus Ordo
(post-Vatican II) Church, what man is comfortable
confessing the sin, say, of masturbation to a priest
who may be aroused by it? This is no mere speculation.
Men have been shamefully propositioned
by homosexual priests in today’s cozy “Reconciliation
Room”. This is very likely reason for the precipitous
drop (to around 2%) in Confession.
Equally to the point is that the sole reason
that a Traditional Catholic Priest is often unstinting
in knowing (in the privacy of a proper
Confessional separating the priest from the penitent)
the nature, number, and circumstances of our sins. How
can he put us on the right path if he does not know
the path we have travelled that led us to sin?
This does not mean that each sin should be
confessed in lurid detail! That is inappropriate! But
if the priest-confessor gives you absolution of sins
not fully disclosed or understood by either himself
or you — in addition to the sins that you have invalidly
or incompletely confessed —
not only do
your sins remain when you leave the Confessional, but
you ADD the very grave Mortal Sin of Sacrilege
— which is greater than any other sin you possibly
could have confessed! The priest is not trying to “torture”
you — as Pseudo-Pope Francis falsely claims in describing
the Sacrament of Confession — he
wants to help you get to Heaven and realizes
that you cannot possibly go there if you are in a
state of sin, especially Mortal Sin. You absolutely
must not conceal any sins through a misplaced
sense of shame. It is VITAL that you understand
this!]
You must receive the Sacrament
of Penance worthily!
You have been bound by sin, and now desire
to be loosed from the chains of sin which bind you. When you
feel the desire to be loosed from sin, God is calling you.
If you wish to go to Him, raise up your heart in fervent prayer.
You must earnestly ask God’s help.
Many sacrilegious
Confessions and Communions may be traced to the fact that a soul,
of itself, presumes to approach the Tribunal of Penance
without the help of God. Men and women come into the
confessional without the least preparation, after having been engaged
in useless conversation on the street up to the moment of entering
the Church. Others spend their time idly gazing around the
Church while awaiting their turn in the pews. This should never
happen; and those who do so demonstrate that they do not realize
the utter sanctity of the Sacrament of Penance.
The priest is
the ambassador of Jesus Christ. Christ has placed in him the
power of reconciliation. The priest is sent even as our Lord was
sent, by the Father. How can he exercise that wonderful ministry
of reconciliation if you neglect to do your part in seeking
to be united to God in the Sacrament of Penance?
For this union
you must:
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Have genuine and heartfelt sorrow
for your sins (one good test is this: if you could go
back in time, would you commit that same sin again)
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Examine your conscience (were
the things you had done, things God would have had
you do? Did you fail to do what you know
God would have had you do?)
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Confess your sins to the priest
(openly, honestly, sorrowfully, omitting no sin though a
sense of guilt or worthless shame: you are confessing
to Christ Himself in the person of His priest, no matter
how unworthy the priest may be!)
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Make a firm resolution to sin no more. Saint Peter
was unsparing in his assessment of those who lacked firm
resolution: “The dog turns
back to his own vomit again, and the pig that was washed
goes back to wallowing in the mud.”
(2 St. Peter 2.22)
Promise satisfaction (doing the
penance enjoined upon you by the priest in confession, repairing
the scandal you may have brought to an individual, restoring
property you may have stolen, and the good name to your
neighbor if you have gossiped against her or unjustly defamed
him.)
PREPARATION
WITH PRAYER
Try
to start your confession
with the Rosary, imploring that God may give you the grace to make
a good, humble, sincere and worthy confession. We never know when
God may call us to account in the Particular Judgment following
our death, and we must show our devotion to the Holy Trinity and
a sober recognition of the state our souls are in by always making
a good confession.
Always keep in mind that
this life is a mere 70 - 80 years long at most. After that we are
judged.
God wants all his children to go to Heaven, but all of us reject
His love through sin at some point, and many of us unfortunately
reject His forgiveness through the holy sacrament of Confession.
LIFE
IS NOT ABOUT THIS WORLD, BUT THE NEXT
Remember
— God does not put us in Hell, we put ourselves in
Hell. God wants us to be in love with Him and out of His love,
we then have the opportunity to return that love during our live
by living the commandments God has given us, by our filial obedience
to Him: “If you love Me, keep My commandments”
(Saint John 14.15). If we choose to
travel down the path God has provided, we can then live forever
with Him in Heaven. It is difficult to be in this world and live
for God, but anything worth doing should be hard, and nothing is
more important than our eternal salvation. Living on faith is very
intense, but Our Lord has given us the tools to live a holy and
virtues life and the graces are there waiting for you. All you have
to do is simply ask for them or receive them through the sacraments,
like Confession and the Holy Eucharist.
CONTRITION
No matter how well you examine your conscience,
how exactly you count your sins, how clearly you tell them, all
will be useless, without a true sorrow of heart for having offended
God.
You must
have sorrow for your sins. As there is a difference
between true joy and the pretense of joy — so, too, with sorrow;
one is from the heart and the other a pretense. Sorrow
of heart is necessary for the pardon of sins in Confession.
There are two
kinds of sorrow. The first arises from a pure
love of God. Knowing how good, how loving, how tender
a Father we have offended by our sins; knowing all that He has
done and suffered for us, we are grieved to the very heart that
we have offended Him. This is perfect contrition.
Imperfect contrition
arises from fear of God’s judgment and from a knowledge of the
baseness of sin and of its evil effects on the soul. This
latter is true sorrow, but not perfect like the first.
United with confession, with a determination to amend the past,
and with the absolution of the priest, imperfect contrition
will justify the sinner; but you should always endeavor to have
perfect sorrow for your sins. This sorrow can be acquired
by prayer and meditation. You must earnestly ask it of God,
and make use of such meditations and considerations as will
move you to it.
SORROW FOR SIN
The
sinner, wishing to receive the Sacrament of Penance must have
true and sincere sorrow for his sin; he must detest it, and turn
away from it in order to be reconciled with God, who it offends.
Mere natural sorrow for
sin because of the temporal evils which it causes is not sufficient.
I may be sorry because sin has ruined my good name, or my wealth,
or health, or honor or purity, but such motives are merely natural,
and have no relation to God. The sinner in the Sacrament of
Penance seeks reconciliation with God, and so the motives of his
sorrow must have reference to God; they must be supernatural, founded
on revelation and faith. Without faith no act can be of avail for
salvation, as “without faith it is
impossible to please God.”
The sinner must regard sin as the greatest of all evils, as it
is. He must be prepared to do and suffer anything rather than
commit sin again. Otherwise he cannot be said to fulfill
that greatest of all commandments, which bids us love God with our
whole heart, with our whole soul, with all our strength, and with
all our mind.
You must know that our
Lord is most desirous of giving us His graces. He is the Good Shepherd
who is anxiously seeking His poor lost sheep. He is the Father of
the poor hungry, wretched child. You must also know that sin is
the only enemy of God. Sin crucified our Redeemer.
Sin blackens and defiles the soul, which is the temple of God. Sin
robs the soul of its inheritance, the everlasting joys of Heaven,
and precipitates so many into the eternal torments of Hell. A soul
in grace is a spouse of Jesus Christ, a temple of the Holy Ghost;
a soul in mortal sin, is a subject of Satan, a den of unclean
spirits. A soul in grace is beautiful, like an angel;
a soul in sin is poor, despoiled of all merit, a slave of the devil.
Remember, mortal sin kills the soul. It
is true that our souls are immortal.
The Scriptures mention
a second death, which is the everlasting death of the soul in Hell.
Now, that death is the sequel and issue of mortal sin, for mortal
sin deprives the soul of the grace of God, which is the life of
the soul. How hideous is the body a few days after life has departed!
You could hardly find a man willing to stay a whole night with a
decomposing corpse. Yet a soul in mortal sin is infinitely more
horrible. One mortal sin changed the brightest angels of God into
hideous demons; so ugly, that the sight of one deformed spirit would
be enough to strike one dead. What, then, must be the terrible deformity
of that man’s soul who is guilty of many mortal sins! We read in
the life of St. Catherine of Siena, that God permitted her to see
a soul in sin; and she declared that, had she not been upheld and
strengthened by God, she would instantly have died from fright and
horror.
Sin is an infinite
evil. God alone knows the enormity of sin. Hence to have
true sorrow for sin, you must ask God to give it to you; and that
you may be moved to greater fervor in doing so, meditate on the
Passion of our Lord. For in the Victim of Calvary we see the
enormity of sin that required such atonement; the justice of God
that required such satisfaction; the love of our Lord Who endured
so much for us; the ingratitude of men who hardly ever think of
all that Jesus Christ suffered in order to save them from the punishment
they deserve for their sins.
During
your conservations with God through prayer, you came to know
your real self. He has given you strength and courage. The Holy
Ghost has enlightened the soul. Reflect upon how you stand
before God. Take account of your soul. Think about your sins since
your last Confession. This is making an examination of conscience.
The neglect of examination of conscience is a source of sacrilegious
Confessions. It is owing to carelessness on the part of
some, indifference on the part of others, and ignorance on the part
of still more. Generally, those who hasten to the confessional without
asking God to give them grace to make a good Confession, begin to
accuse themselves without any previous examination. They never try
to count their sins. Many do not truthfully show themselves to
the priest, as our Lord tells them. They either hide their guilty
conscience, or they show themselves in false colors. They do not
examine their conscience. They do not count their sins.
The following is an example of a confession made without an examination
of conscience.
An example:
Here is a man, for instance, who has been away from confession for
five years:
Confessor (Priest)
— When were you at confession last?
Penitent
– A long time ago.
Confessor (Priest)
— How long ago?
Penitent
— Oh, several years.
Confessor (Priest)
— Please tell me, as near as you can, how long it is.
Penitent
—it’s so long, Father, it’s hard for me to tell.
Confessor
— Is it one year, or two or five or ten years?
Penitent
—Well, it’s about five years.
Confessor (Priest)
— What sins have you committed since then?
Penitent
— A great many.
Confessor (Priest)
— Have you cursed?
Penitent
— I have.
Confessor (Priest)
— How often, and what did you say?
Penitent
— Oh, not very often.
Confessor (Priest)
— About how many times a day did you take the Holy Name
of Jesus in vain?
Penitent
— Some days a good many times, and other days not at all.
Confessor (Priest)
— Please, my child, tell the number of times you committed
each sin, and do not keep me waiting.
Penitent
— Well, I cursed and swore, told lies, missed Mass, had
bad thoughts, and got angry sometimes; that’s all, Father.
Such a Confession
is not clear enough. It is too general.
It is a most imperfect confession.
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How can the priest
form a correct judgment of the state of such a man’s soul?
The priest must form a just judgment before he passes sentence,
otherwise God will not ratify his decision.
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The penitent alone
is the only accuser, the witness against himself.
If he does not tell the truth, how can the priest rightly
tell the condition of his soul? In the example given
the penitent says, “I cursed,” but does not tell the whole
truth. He does not say whether it was once, twice,
ten or one hundred times a day. Again, he does not
tell the curses he used. He does not say whether,
in cursing, he invoked God, or Christ, or the sacred Name
of Jesus.
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How, then, can
the priest have any knowledge of the curses and oaths which
that man has vomited forth, when he only hears, “Father,
I cursed.”
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Then again he
says, “Father, I missed Mass.” He does not tell the priest
how often, whether it was once in a month or once in six
months, whether he could help it or not.
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He says, too,
that he has had bad thoughts, but he gives no intimation
that he took pleasure in them; he does not tell how often
that was the case, and so on.
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If he absolves
that man without a knowledge of his soul, he runs the danger
of committing a terrible sacrilege himself.
Examine
your Conscience (reflect upon your sins) relative to:
The Ten Commandments of God
I. |
I am
the LORD your God: you shall not have strange Gods before
me.
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II. |
You
shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain.
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III. |
Remember
to keep holy the LORD'S Day.
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IV. |
Honor
your father and your mother.
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V. |
You
shall not kill.
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VI. |
You
shall not commit adultery.
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VII. |
You
shall not steal.
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VIII. |
You
shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
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IX. |
You
shall not covet your neighbor's wife.
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X. |
You
shall not covet your neighbor's goods
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The
Commandments of the Church.
The particular Duties
of your State of Life.
The Seven Deadly Sins:
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Pride
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Avarice (Greed)
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Envy
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Anger
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Lust
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Gluttony
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Sloth
And consider where,
in, and how often, you have offended God by thought,
word, deed, or omission.
REMEMBER ALWAYS TO
COUNT YOUR SINS.
There are certain words
never to be used in the confessional. Never say sometimes,
a good many times, not often, very often. Never use such expressions,
because they are all vague, indefinite terms; they do not give the
priest any idea of the exact number of one’s sins. Tell the priest:
If you cannot give
the exact number, give it as nearly as you can. Tell about
how often. God does not require impossibilities. Doing the best
you can, you need have no fear of telling a lie. To come as nearly
as you can to the number is not lying. It is all you can do. But
if you find this too difficult, because you have been absent from
Confession a long time, then give an average number of the sins
you have committed daily or weekly or monthly. Put one day
or one week or one month with another, and see about
how often in a day or in the week or in the month you have been
in the habit of committing each sin.
Moreover, have some
system in examining yourself and in telling your sins.
Follow the order
of the Commandments.
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Separate your
different sins,
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one kind from
another,
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and count how many
you have of each.
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And remember —
you must COUNT YOUR SINS before going to Confession.
First Commandment
“I Am The Lord Thy
God. Thou Shalt Not Have Strange gods Before Me.”
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In counting your sins, if you cannot give the exact
number, as nearly as you can, truthfully approximate
how often you have committed each.
I denied, or doubted my faith
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I murmured against God
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I despaired of His mercy
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I missed my daily prayers
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I went to places of false
worship
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I talked against the Church,
priests, or faith
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I went to fortune tellers
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I was dealing with the occult
— i.e. Ouija Board
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_____ Times a week, or month
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I was guilty of superstitious
practices
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I was guilty of excessive
materialism
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I was guilty of malice (deliberate
choice of evil)
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_____ Times a week, or month
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I read books contrary to faith
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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Second
Commandment:
“Thou Shalt Not
Take The Name of the Lord Thy God in Vain.”
I swore by name of God (Blasphemy)
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I swore by name of Jesus (Blasphemy)
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I cursed others by saying:
God damn you
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I cursed my children and wife
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I cursed in the hearing of
the young
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I perjured myself by swearing
falsely in court
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I took rash and unnecessary
oaths
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I provoked others to curse
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I did not prevent cursing
when I could and should
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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I spoke against saints, holy
things and pious practices.
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_____ Times a week,
or month.
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Third Commandment:
“Remember Thou Keep
Holy the Sabbath Day.”
I missed Mass on Sunday &
Holydays through my fault
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I spent a great part of these
days in sinful occupations
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I was late for Mass by my
own fault
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I kept my wife, children or
employees from Mass
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I assisted at Mass with willful
distractions
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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I engaged in servile works
on Sunday and Holydays without necessity
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_____ Times a week, or month.
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Fourth
Commandment:
“Honor Thy Father
and Thy Mother.”
1.
Duty of Children
I disobeyed my parents/teachers/leaders
in important matters
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_____ Times a day, or week.
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I caused them to be angry:
I grieved them
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_____ Times a day, or week.
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I used insulting language
to them
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_____ Times a day, or week.
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I kept or wasted my wages
I should have given to them
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_____ Times.
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I did not support them
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_____ Times.
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I incited my brothers and
sisters against them
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_____ Times.
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I neglected to write them,
or send them help
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_____ Months _____ years.
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I neglected them in sickness,
in death
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_____ Months _____ years
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2.
Duties of
Husbands and Fathers
I grieved, abused, struck
my wife
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_____ Times
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I accused her wrongfully
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_____ Times
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I neglected to provide for
my family
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_____ Times
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I gave my children bad example
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_____ Times
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I failed to correct their
faults
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_____ Times
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I neglected to instruct them
in religion
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_____ Times
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I interfered with their religious
vocation
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_____ Times
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3.
Duties
of Wives and Mothers
I disobeyed my husband
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_____ Times.
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I caused my children to disobey
and dishonor him
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_____ Times.
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I talked of his faults to
my children or neighbors
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_____ Times.
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I neglected to correct my
children
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_____ Times.
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I gave them bad example
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_____ Times.
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I did not instruct them in
their religion
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_____ Times.
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I interfered with their religious
vocation
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_____ Times.
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Fifth
Commandment:
“Thou
shalt not kill”
I was angry
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_____ Times.
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I caused others to become
angry
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_____ Times.
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I was quarreling or fighting
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_____ Times.
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I desired the death of others
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_____ Times.
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I cherished hatred to others
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_____ Times.
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I've used or approved of artificial
birth control
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_____ Times.
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I refused to speak or to be
reconciled to others
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_____ Times.
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I caused the death of another
by negligence
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_____ Times.
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I brought dishonor to family,
school, community, or the Church
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_____ Times.
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I have been guilty of detraction
(telling an unkind truth about another)
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____ Times.
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I led others to commit sin,
by word or example
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_____ Times.
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I Used illegal drugs
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_____ Times.
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Sixth
Commandment
& Ninth
Commandment:
“Thou
Shalt Not Commit Adultery” & “Thou Shalt Not Covet Thy Neighbor’s
Wife.”
Here
the penitent must seriously consider past thoughts, words, and actions
against these commandments. If one had the misfortune to break
them, one must tell whether one is single or married; whether thoughts,
words, desires, or acts referred to single or married persons or
relatives.
I had premarital sex, including
oral sex, intercourse, impure touching of another
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_____ Persons_____ Times.
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I took pleasure in impure
thoughts
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_____ Times a day.
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I had impure desires
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_____ Times a day
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I spoke immodestly in the
hearing of others
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_____ Persons_____ Times a
day.
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I boasted of sins of impurity
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_____ Times a day_____ a week.
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I sang or listened to immodest
songs
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_____ Times a day_____ a week.
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I read immodest books, papers,
or writings
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_____ Times.
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I was guilty of immodest looks
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_____ Times a week
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I kept, showed, looked at
immodest pictures/pornographic material
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_____ Times a week.
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I went to immodest places
of amusement
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_____ Times a week.
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I was guilty of immodest acts
(See note above,
and tell what these acts were)
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_____ Times.
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I committed homosexuals actions
with
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_____ Persons ____ Times.
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I committed immodest acts
alone
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_____ Times.
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I was guilty of the sin of
Onanism* (masturbation, withdrawal method)
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_____ Times.
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(* In the Book of Genesis, Onan was commanded by his father
to impregnate the widow of his slain brother and to raise the offspring
of the union. In order to avoid raising descendants for his late
brother, however, Onan engaged in coitus interruptus.)
Seventh Commandment
& Tenth
Commandment:
“Thou Shalt Not Steal.”
& “Thou Shalt Not Covet Thy Neighbor’s Goods.”
I stole goods to the amount of
...
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I destroyed property, defrauded
insurance companies
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I took from my employers
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I stole $____ worth, but restored,
though able to return all, only
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$______
Worth
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I wasted time for which I was
paid work, value of ...
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I injured others in their employment
or goods
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I neglected to pay my bills, just
debts, amounting to
...
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I defrauded in weights and measures
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I defrauded those employed by
me
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I unjustly deferred the payment
of their wages
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$ _____, _____ Times.
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I desired to possess unjustly
my neighbor’s goods
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______Times.
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Eighth
Commandment:
“Thou
Shalt Not Bear False Witness Against Thy Neighbor.”
I told lies
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_____ Times.
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I seriously injured my neighbor’s
character, by publishing his secret faults
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_____Times.
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I carried stories and caused
trouble
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_____ Times.
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I told a deliberate lie to
the injury of my neighbor
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_____ Times.
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I spoke without necessity
of the known faults of others
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_____ Times.
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I've broken promises deliberately
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_____ Times.
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I am guilty of calumny — telling
lies about one another
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_____ Times.
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I failed to defend my neighbor’s
character
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_____ Times.
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I encouraged detraction or
calumny, or listened to it with complacency
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_____ Times.
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I failed to make reparation
for sins of tongue
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_____ Times.
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Commandments
of the Church (The 7 Precepts of the Church)
1. To hear Mass on Sundays and holydays of obligation.
2. To fast and abstain on the days appointed.
3. To confess at least once a year.
4. To receive the Holy Eucharist during the Easter time.
5. To contribute to the support of our pastors.
6. To refrain from eating meat on Fridays
[7. Not to marry persons who are not Catholics, or who are related
to us within the third degree of kindred, nor privately without
witnesses, nor to solemnize marriage at forbidden times.]
I neglected my yearly confession
and Easter Communion
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_____ Times.
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I attempted marriage contrary
to the law of the Church
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_____ Times.
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I neglected, when able, to
support the Church
|
_____ Times.
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I ate meat on days of abstinence,
without permission or necessity
|
_____ Times.
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I caused others to eat meat
on days of abstinence
|
_____ Times.
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I broke the fasts of the Church
|
_____ Times.
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I caused others to break the
fasts of the Church
|
_____ Times.
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The Seven
Deadly Sins
1. Pride
2. Lust
3. Gluttony
4. Greed
5. Sloth — Acedia
6. Wrath or Anger
7. Envy
I was guilty of gluttony
|
_____ Times.
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I was drunk
|
_____ Times.
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I caused others to be drunk
|
_____ Times.
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I gave liquor to those drunk
|
_____ Times.
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I was slothful in religious
exercises
|
_____ Times.
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I was lazy and idle
|
_____ Times.
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I was envious
|
_____ Times.
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I was yearning for impure
pleasures
|
_____ Times.
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I have had an immoderate desire
for earthly goods
|
_____ Times.
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I have had an inordinate desire
for revenge
|
_____ Times.
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I was proud
|
_____ Times.
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The Four
Sins Crying to Heaven for Vengeance
Willful murder (including abortion)
|
_____ Times.
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The sin of Sodom. (unnatural
sex)
|
_____ Times.
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Oppression of the poor.
|
_____ Times.
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Defrauding laborers of their
wages.
|
_____ Times.
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The Six Sins against the Holy Ghost
Presumption of God's mercy-sinning
and saying God must forgive me
|
_____ Times.
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Despair — to believe that
God will refuse to forgive you
|
_____ Times.
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To attack as false or questioning
the known truth.
|
_____ Times.
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Envy at another's spiritual
good
|
_____ Times.
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Obstinacy in sin — refusing
to stop known sinful behavior
|
_____ Times.
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Final impenitence — refusing
to accept God's mercy at moment of death
|
_____ Times.
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Nine
Ways of being Accessory to Another’s Sin
By counsel
— talking one into
sin
|
_____ Times.
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By command — telling one to
sin
|
_____ Times.
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By consent
—
agreeing with the sin
|
_____ Times.
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By provocation
—
to pressure one into sin
|
_____ Times.
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By praise or flattery
—
congratulating
the sin committed by others
|
_____ Times.
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By concealment
—
covering up the sin for another
|
_____ Times.
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By partaking
—
approving sin by assisting
in it
|
_____ Times.
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By silence
—
by not speaking up against
the sin
|
_____ Times.
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By defense of the ill done
—
rationalizing the sin done or will be done
|
_____ Times.
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Also, don’t forget
to always confess all Venial sins that you might have committed
— i.e. ingratitude, reckless driving, selfishness, rudeness etc.
HOW TO GO TO CONFESSION
Having
prepared yourself for Confession, go to your confessor with great
humility and modesty, and remember that you are about to present
yourself before Jesus Christ Himself, who sees the depths of
you heart, and will one day judge you. If you are obliged
to wait, renew your act of contrition. Regard yourself as
a criminal bound with chains, who has been tried and convicted,
and is called before the judge who he has insulted and offended.
When at the feet of your confessor, kneel with the greatest reverence
and humility, and consider that you are at the feet of Jesus crucified,
who desires to hear from your own lips a sincere Confession of all
your sins, and is ready to pardon them if you really repent, and
to wash you in His own absolution. Avoid all mention of
your virtues or of the sins of others not pertaining to your own
offences, except when, through necessity, you seek direction
and advice.
Never mention the names of others in the confessional.
We enter the tribunal to accuse ourselves of our own sins,
not to declare our virtues or to blame others.
Then make the Sign of the Cross, saying, “Bless me, Father, for
I have sinned.”
Then humbly, and in a clear, intelligible voice, say how long it
is since your last Confession, whether you received absolution,
and whether you performed you penance. Confess your sins according
to the Commandments; that is, tell first all the sins committed
against the First Commandment, then those committed against the
Second, and so on.
Say if you frequently fall back into these sins, or if you have
any attachment or occupation which leads you into temptation.
Mention, also, if you have neglected to fulfill any serious obligation;
— tell your confessor everything with sincerity and as clearly
as possible, both that he may be able to apply the proper remedy,
and that you may avoid making a bad Confession, which is easily
done by the slothful and careless.
If you desire to make really good Confessions,
imagine each Confession
to be the last one you will ever make, and that, immediately
after, you will be judged by Almighty God. Think that
on this Confession may depend your salvation or damnation.
Endeavor so to confess that at the hour of your death your past
Confessions may not be the cause of any disquietude to you, but
rather of consolation.
Listen with silence, attention, and humility to the instructions
of your confessor; remark carefully the penance enjoined; and while
receiving absolution, renew with all your heart your act of contrition
and purpose of amendment
On leaving the confessional, excite in your heart the liveliest
sentiments of consolation and confidence, hoping and rejoicing that
God has forgiven your sins. Perform your penance as soon as
possible, and thank God for the great favor He has granted you.
After Confession go before our Divine Lord in the Blessed Sacrament,
to make your thanksgiving for holy absolution. Spend at
least a quarter of an hour in forming acts of praise, thanksgiving,
and contrition. Our Lord delights to pour out His graces on
the grateful soul. Many shamefully go home from Confession
without saying one act of thanksgiving.
BAD
CONFESSIONS
It is a sacrilege
to make a bad Confession. To receive absolution
after having made an unworthy Confession, and consequently without
having the right dispositions, is to incur the guilt of sacrilege;
that is, the violation of a sacred thing. A bad Confession
hinders and frustrates the instrumental action of the Sacrament
of Penance, and he who is guilty of it may be said thus to destroy
the efficacy of the Blood of Jesus Christ; for it is in the precious
Blood of our Lord, shed long ago, that souls are cleansed from sin.
Our Lord, instituted the
Sacraments as so many channels through which His Precious Blood
may be applied to souls, quickening them with and sustaining them
in, a new and higher life. In Baptism, for instance, when
the water flows over the head of the child, and the words are pronounced,
at the same moment, in virtue of the Blood of our Lord, its soul
is cleansed from sin, and it is awakened to the new life of a child
of God and heir of Heaven.
In like manner, in the
sacred tribunal of Penance, when the penitent comes properly disposed,
as soon as the priest raises his hand over him and pronounces the
words of absolution, through the Divine agency of the Blood of our
Lord, the soul is laved and purified of all its sins, no matter
how great they may be; for Christ has said,
“Whose sins ye shall forgive, they are
forgiven.” But if the penitent has not the proper disposition
there is a sacrilege, for the Blood of our Lord is in a manner destroyed
– rendered ineffectual in that case. And,
what is worse, a bad Confession
is generally followed by a bad Communion. How great a crime
is committed by unworthily receiving our Lord in Communion!
They who do so, as St. Paul says, are guilty of the Body
and Blood of the Lord. You have heard, perhaps of the unnatural
mother who took her lovely smiling babe and buried it alive.
Oh, how much greater is the crime of the bad Catholic who will bury
the living Son of God in a heart foul with every crime, worse than
any grave, however horrible! How will such a wretch one day
answer an enraged Father for what may be called the murder of His
adorable Son?
What has been said was
not to terrify or keep you away from the Sacraments. God forbid!
The priest does not desire to frighten people away from the table
of the Lord, but to press them to come to the Feast. You know,
that if you do not approach and receive Holy Communion,
“you cannot have life in you;”
that is, the life of the soul, the life of the children of God.
Yes, go to Communion – go frequently! It will nourish
and strengthen your soul. Our Lord will dwell in you;
He will support you. He will sustain you in your conflicts
with the devil. Remember that what has been said was only
to guard you against that carelessness with which too many, alas,
approach the Sacraments.
GENERAL CONFESSIONS
[Editor's Note:
The term “General Confession” must
not be mistaken for “Ordinary Confession”.
A General Confession is usually
only required of those who have gone for a year or more
without the Sacrament of Confession.
A General Confession is often
long and should not be attempted in the queue for ordinary Confession,
since it would deprive the other waiting penitents the opportunity
for their ordinary (and generally much shorter) Confession.
A General Confession involves the confessing of all
ones sins that had been committed since one’s last Confession. Needless
to say, one can accumulate quite a bit in the way of sin in one
year, and substantially more when it has been longer.]
It is not necessary
to make a General Confession. For some, it would be profitable,
and there are some to whom a General Confession is absolutely necessary;
but there are others to whom it would be hurtful. First: a
General Confession is useful to those who have been leading a tepid,
careless life. To such persons it is often the beginning of
a life of fervor. There are eight classes of persons who are
under the necessity of making a General Confession:
1. All those who, in some past Confession, willfully
concealed a mortal sin through shame, fear, or indifference.
2. Those who, instead of having used sufficient diligence,
having been grossly negligent in the examination of their conscience.
3. Those who have lived in gross and culpable ignorance
of the necessary points of faith and practice.
4. Those who have confessed without sincere repentance for
the past, and a firm resolution of avoiding sin, and the occasions
of sin, in the future.
5. Those who continue to go to Confession while they live
in the immediate occasions of sin, which they can, but will not,
avoid.
6. Those who have deliberately neglected restitution when
they had the power and opportunity of making it.
7. Those who lived in vicious habits without earnestly trying
to overcome them.
8. Those who have (after their Confessions the same as before)
continued to live in enmity, hatred and malice.
Thirdly, scrupulous
persons and those who have often made general Confessions should
not attempt to make a general Confession. Such persons worry
the priest. They say to themselves, “Well, if I am allowed
to make a general Confession now, I shall be satisfied.” But
if they are allowed to make it, they will be as dissatisfied as
ever.
The best proof of
true sorrow is a change of life. When a man immediately falls
into the sins which he has just confessed, almost without a struggle
to guard against such a fall, there is reason to fear that he had
no true sorrow. But when a man carefully watches over himself,
tries to shun the dangerous occasions of sin, and prays fervently
for graces to keep from sinning, we can reasonably hope that his
was true sorrow such as God accepts.
PURPOSE OF AMENDMENT
There can be no true
contrition, and therefore, no good Confession, unless there
be a purpose of amendment. It is an act of the will by which
you firmly resolve to commit sin no more, to change your lives,
and to do penance for the past. If you are really sorry for
what you have done, you shall also be firmly resolved to avoid the
same and other offenses in the future.
This purpose of amendment
ought to be firm, that is, you must have a fixed will never again
to commit sin, no matter what temptations may arise, no matter what
you may have to endure in proving your fidelity to God; you must
be determined to use the means necessary to avoid sin, such as shunning
its occasions and following the directions of your confessor; it
must extend not only to those mortal sins which you have committed,
but to all mortal sins. In this respect, your purpose of amendment
must be like your contrition. You should set no limit to it.
You must hate and determine to avoid sin. You should have
no pet sin held in reserve. Unless all be renounced, none
will be forgiven: for the love of God cannot exist in the same heart
with mortal sin, nor will God take up His dwelling in the same house
with His enemy.
If you are weak,
do not imagine that you cannot promise to be faithful. God
is our strength. Grace will conquer nature and sin.
“I can do all things in Him who strengthens
me,” says St. Paul. Do not hesitate,
therefore; your present will is what you must regard. Are
you here and now determined, with God’s grace, to do all you can
to avoid sin in the future? If so, take courage; God will
strengthen you.
If you fall at the
first attack, if you make no struggle against temptation, if you
employ none of the means given you to avoid sin, then you may judge
that you were not sincere. But if you cannot in any of these
ways reproach yourself, only learn from your weakness, lessons of
humility, and begin again. Oh, yes! no matter how often you
fall, never cease to trust in the mercy of God, even while
you keep before your eyes the strictness of His justice.
HABITUAL SINNERS
AND SINS OF HABIT
It is easy
to account for some who become slaves to their passions.
In the first place, we are all, because of your fallen nature, prone
to sin: “The life of man upon earth
is warfare,” says holy Job. We
must all fight, and no man, St. Paul declares, will be crowned “except
he strive lawfully.” “Strive,”
says our Lord, “to enter by the narrow
gate, for many, I say to you, shall seek to enter, and shall not
be able,” because they do not strive hard.
Again, “the Kingdom of Heaven suffereth
violence, and the violent bear it away.”
One of the holy Fathers compares the
heart to a rich garden. This garden, if neglected, is soon
filled with noxious weeds. Foreign seeds will be carried there
by the wind, and unless you pluck up the young plants by the roots,
you will soon have a forest to contend with. Another Father
compares our passions to the lion’s whelp. You can easily
strangle it when young; but if you nourish it a little, it will
become a wild beast, which will one day devour you. There
was a time, when the miserable man who dies a victim of his intemperance
could have said, “I can drink and I can let it alone.” A little
later he acquired the habit of drink, and could no longer let it
alone. He fed the wild beast of his passion until it became
strong enough to devour him. So it is with every other sin.
When passions become
strong, or when bad habits have been fostered for a long time, it
is hard to overcome them. When you indulge in any passion,
it becomes strong, a second nature, and therefore very difficult
to overcome. No matter how bad you may be, how long you may
have been given to the worst kinds of sin, if you do your
part, God can and will lift you up and will break all the fetters
that bind you.
In order to break off
bad habits, such as those cursing, drinking and impurity, you must
be fully determined not to commit those sins again.
Without that determination, your conversion would be a mockery.
You must realize that your habit of cursing or drinking or impurity
was formed by repeated acts.
You are bound to overcome
such a habit. Nor can you excuse yourself, as many do,
by saying that you have the habit. By willfully placing
yourself in such a state you are responsible for the many crimes
it leads you to commit. A mere desire to do better
is not sufficient. You must have a strong will to do
better. You must then vigorously and watchfully
labor to destroy your bad habits. But how many show
by their lives that they are never in earnest, that
they never sincerely and courageously strive to overcome themselves!
They are satisfied with wishing to change their lives, but
they never make a real effort to do so. Hence you will
often see people make the Mission, but alas! you will also see them
in a few days returning to their old haunts of sin, committing the
same crimes that but a short time before, they had solemnly promised
God to abandon forever.
This happens because they
are not fully determined to keep from falling into their old habits.
When you have a firm will not to return to your former sins, you
will endeavor to avoid the occasions of them. What would you
think of a man who would throw a dry log into a burning furnace,
and yet declare he did not wish the log to burn? If you say you
do not wish to sin, and yet go into places, or associate with companions
who, you know, will drag you back into sin, you are equally senseless.
Oh, how true it is, “He that loveth danger shall perish in it!”
Not only must you have a firm resolution not to return to your
old ways, not only must you avoid as far as you can every occasion
of sin, but you must also pray earnestly to God for strength
to keep your good resolutions. “Ask
and ye shall receive,” says our Lord.
Pray earnestly, fervently and constantly for grace to overcome your
temptations.
You are tempted. Who
is not? But, in the language of St. Paul, “God will make issue
with temptations,” that you may overcome them. You must remember
that our Lord knows your weakness. He shed His Blood for us. By
its virtue the soul is cleanses and its wounds healed in Confession,
and He gives Himself to us in Holy Communion to be our soul’s food
and nourishment. Men are wounded, but they will not come to the
Divine Physician. They are weak, but they will not come to the Divine
Table to obtain strength! Is it not evident that they desire to
remain slaves to their passions when they do not make use of the
proper means to overcome them?
Remember what has been
said: “Let your Confession be supplemented by a firm resolution
of never again offending God, and a strong determination of avoiding
all occasions of sin. Go to the Sacraments to obtain strength
to keep those resolutions, and pray fervently to our Lord for grace,
lest the enemy should overcome you.
Lastly, be devoted to
our dear Immaculate Mother, the refuge of sinners, the help of Christians.
Beg of her to shield you under the mantle of her protection from
all the fiery darts of your bitter enemy; and be assured that, no
matter what may have been your habits, you will overcome them. God
will one day crown you with victory.
PRAYER
BEFORE CONFESSION
Most
merciful God, Father in heaven, relying on Thy goodness and
mercy, I come to Thee with filial confidence to confess my sins
and to implore Thy forgiveness. Thou wilt not despise a contrite
and humble heart. Bless me and receive me again into Thy favor;
I acknowledge that I have been most ungrateful to Thee, but I sincerely
repent and detest the wrong I have done, and I desire henceforth
to walk in the way of perfection, in accordance with Thy holy will.
O Jesus, my Savior, my
good Shepherd, I have strayed far from the path Thou hast marked
out for me; I did not follow in Thy footsteps; I wandered into forbidden
places. Repentant and sorrowful, I beg to be admitted again into
the fold of Thy faithful followers. I want to confess my sins
with perfect sincerity, as if I were at the point of death. My Jesus,
I look to Thee with confidence for the grace to examine my conscience
well.
O Holy Ghost, come in
Thy mercy; enlighten my mind and strengthen my will that I may know
my sins, humbly confess them, and sincerely amend my life.
Mary, my mother, immaculate
spouse of the Holy Ghost, refuge to sinners, assist me in Thy intercessions.
Holy angels and saints
of God, pray for me. Amen.
INVOCATION OF THE HOLY GHOST
O
Holy Ghost, Source of all
light, Spirit of wisdom, of understanding and of knowledge, come
to my assistance and enable me to make a good confession. Enlighten
me, and help me now know my sins as one day I shall be forced to
recognize them before Thy judgment seat. Bring to my mind the evil
which I have done and the good which I have neglected. Permit me
not to be blinded by self-love. Grant me, moreover, heartfelt sorrow
for my transgressions, and the grace of a sincere confession, so
that I may be forgiven and admitted into Thy friendship. Amen.
ACT
BEFORE CONFESSION
I
thank Thee O my God! For
having waited for me until now! I hope, through the merits of Jesus
Christ, for the pardon of all my offenses against Thee! I am sorry
for them, and repent of them with my whole heart, because by them
I have lost heaven and have deserved hell; but, above all, I am
grieved to my inmost soul, and hate and detest my sins more than
all evils, because they have offended Thy infinite goodness. I purpose
in future rather to die than to offend Thee any more. Amen.
ACT OF
CONTRITION
O
my God, I am heartily sorry
for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because
I dread the loss of heaven and the pains of hell, but most of all
because they offend Thee, my God, Who art all-good and deserving
of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Thy grace,
to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen.
ACT
AFTER CONFESSION
My
dear Jesus! how much do I not owe Thee? By the merits
of Thy blood I hope that I have this day been pardoned. I thank
Thee above all things. I hope to reach heaven, where I shall praise
Thy mercies forever. My God, if I have hitherto lost Thee so often,
I now desire to lose Thee no more. From this day forward I will
change my life in earnest. Thou dost merit all my love; I will love
Thee truly; I will no longer see myself separated from Thee. I have
promised Thee this already; now I repeat my promise of being ready
to die rather than offend Thee again. I promise also to avoid all
occasions of sin, and to use such means as will prevent me from
falling again. My Jesus, Thou knowest my weakness: give me grace
to be faithful to Thee till death, and to have recourse to Thee
when I am tempted. My most holy Mary, help me! Thou art the mother
of perseverance; I place my hope in thee.
PRAYER
OF PETITION
May
this confession, O Lord, by the merits of Blessed Mary
ever virgin, Thy Mother, and of all the saints, be pleasing and
acceptable in Thy sight. Let Thy goodness and mercy supply for whatever
has been wanting in my contrition, and in the purity and integrity
of my confession. Deign Thou mercifully to regard me perfectly and
entirely absolved in heaven; Who livest and reignest God, world
without end. Amen.
PRAYER
FOR PERSEVERANCE
O
Almighty and most merciful God,
Who, according to the multitude of Thy tender mercies, hast
vouchsafed once more to receive Thy prodigal child, after so many
times going astray from Thee, and to admit me to this Sacrament
of reconciliation; I give Thee thanks with all the powers of my
soul for this and all other mercies, graces, and blessings bestowed
on me; and prostrating myself at Thy sacred feet, I offer myself
to be henceforth forever Thine. Oh! Let nothing in life or death
ever separate me from Thee. I renounce with my whole soul all my
treasons against Thee, and all thee abominations and sins of my
past life. I renew my promises made in Baptism, and from this moment
I dedicate myself eternally to Thy love and service. Oh! Grant
that for the time to come I may abhor sin more than death itself,
and avoid all such occasions and companies as have unhappily brought
me to it. This I resolve to do, by the aid of Thy divine grace,
without which I can do nothing. I beg Thy blessing upon these my
resolutions, that they may not be ineffectual, like so many others
I have formally made; for, O Lord, without Thee I am nothing but
misery and sin. Give me grave to be now and always a true penitent,
through the same Christ Thy Son. Amen.
THANKSGIVING AFTER CONFESSION
Eternal Father!
I thank Thee, I bless Thee,
for Thy goodness and mercy. Thou has had compassion on me, although
in my folly I had wandered far away from Thee and offended Thee
most grievously. With father love Thou has received me anew after
so many relapses into sin and forgiven me my offenses through the
holy sacrament of Penance. Blessed forever, O my God, be Thy loving-kindness,
Thy infinite mercy! Never again will I grieve Thee by ingratitude,
by disobedience to Thy holy will. All that I am, all that I have,
all that I do shall be consecrated to Thy service and Thy glory.
Amen.
“Heart
of Jesus, I put my trust in Thee!”
Indulgence of 300 days. – Pius, June 27, 1906.
“ Jesus,
my God, I love Thee above all things.”
Indulgence of 300 days, each time. – S.P. Ap., July
28, 1932.
O Divine Spirit!
penetrate my soul with true horror and loathing of sin. Grant
that I may be more exact in the fulfillment of all my duties, and
strengthen me by Thy grace, that I may not again yield to temptation.
“Sweet heart of Mary, by my salvation.”
Indulgence of 300 days, each time. – Pius IX, Sept.
30, 1852.
“O
Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to Thee.”
Indulgence of 300 days, each time. – Leo XIII,
March 15, 1884; S.P. Ap., April 15, 1932
My
queen! My mother! Remember that I am thine; keep me,
guard me, as thy property and possession.
“ O
Mary, our hope, have pity on us!”
Indulgence of 300 days. – Pius X, January 8, 1906.
PRAYER TO THE BLESSED VIRGIN, TO BE
SAID AFTER CONFESSION
Virgin
Mother of God, most holy Mary safe refuge of sinners!
to thee, who art, after God, our hope and consolation in this place
of exile, to thee I have recourse with sincere confidence, though
most undeserving of thy patronage. I know, one the one hand, how
much I stand in need of being converted from my very heart; yet,
on the other, the heinousness of my crimes strikes me terror.
To thee, then, I betake myself-to thee who art our sovereign mediator
with thy dear Son Jesus, as He is with His eternal Father. To thee,
after Jesus, must I look for my amendment. Vouchsafe then, O Mother
of mercy, to obtain for me the grace of a true and lasting conversion.
I wish to change my life entirely. In this I am sincere; but my
evil habits and ill-use I have made of so many saving inspirations,
the multitude and heinousness of my sins , and the bonds by which
the world holds me, while they render amendment difficult, call
for thy special assistance. Grant it to me in spite of my unworthiness.
In thee I trust; do thou not reject me. Although deserving of eternal
punishment, I throw myself at thy feet, sorrowful and repentant.
My sins, I own, have taken from me the strength which grace imparts,
have cast me out from among the adopted sons of God, have deprived
me of the right to everlasting happiness, and drawn on me instead
the wrath of heaven. Tell me what I must do to regain the friendship
of thy Son, Jesus. Beg of Him, by His precious Blood, His bitter
Passion, and cruel death on the cross, to pardon my offenses, and
He will pardon them. Tell Him thy desire for my salvation, and He
will save me. But as I can still fail into sin and lose the life
of grace amid the dangers which encompass me, ever watch thou over
me, and I shall surely triumph over the enemies who incessantly
work for my ruin. Instill into my heart a lively faith, a firm hope,
an ardent charity, and all the virtues suitable to my state of life;
and obtain for me constancy in good, and final perseverance. In
fine, be thou my loving Mother here below, and my advocate at the
hour of death, that I may be of the number of those to whom the
divine Son shall say: “Come , ye blessed
of My Father, possess the kingdom prepared for you.”
Amen.
An indulgence of 100 days, once a day; plenary once a month on
the last day of the month, or within eight days, on the usual conditions
— Pope Leo XII., Jan. 30, 1828.
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